Blocks to Love

Do you feel frustrated that a great connection fizzles out before reaching exclusivity? Are you stuck finding fault with the people you date, deselecting them for superficial reasons, and not letting anyone get too close to you? These could be signs that you’re self-sabotaging your chances for love. Understanding why this keeps happening, and what to [...]

Your relationship started out great, but now you constantly wonder whether he loves you as much as you love him. You keep asking yourself, “Am I needy or is he emotionally unavailable?” You wonder if the relationship is healthy, and worry if the relationship will last. Getting your needs met is not optional. But are [...]

It’s been said that inside every cynical person is a disappointed romantic. It’s normal to feel suspect at times, but what if that cynicism is keeping you single? Everyone experiences disappointment. Not every relationship works out the way you’d hoped, but that doesn’t mean that building a fortress around your heart will protect you from [...]

Is your heart open or closed to love? What if the perfect man walked into your life tomorrow? Would you be able to let him in or are you emotionally unavailable? Do you believe you’ll have to give up your independence for a relationship? Or do you fear your heart will be broken again? Do [...]

How do you know if you’re giving too much in your relationships? Have you felt like your needs don’t count or matter to others? Do you have a habit of over-giving? Have you felt like you gave everything and still the relationship didn’t work out? Over-giving can be a detriment to a healthy relationship. You [...]

Are your limiting beliefs about love and relationship interfering in your search for lasting love? Limiting beliefs like: “Dating is hard.” “Love doesn’t last.” “True love is just a fantasy." Limiting beliefs get in the way of staying positive and motivated about love and dating and deflate your resiliency in love. They create self-sabotage and [...]

When you struggle with finding a partner and experience long droughts in your dating life, you may find yourself asking, “Am I destined to be alone?" You wind up feeling as if some unseen force is keeping you from the long-lasting love you desire. Ultimately, the belief that you're meant to be alone leaves you [...]

Are guilt and shame blocking you from the lasting love you want? The energetic drain of carrying these low-vibration emotions is keeping you stuck in the past. To release yourself from these chains that close off your heart you’ll want to learn how to forgive yourself and open the flow of love to your heart. [...]

Let’s face it dating in midlife, or your third act, makes it more difficult to find someone who isn’t carrying a cartload of emotional baggage. But here’s the problem, while you’re focused on avoiding other people’s emotional baggage you’re avoiding dealing with your own. You may not be aware of it, but it’s possible you’re [...]

Wonder why lasting love is elusive for you? Confused about what’s blocking love in your life? It may feel like you’re cursed, but the truth is your love blocks are inside of you and you can rewire your brain for love. Rewiring your brain, or neuroplasticity is the ability to rewire neurological connections and form [...]