Blocks to Love

How do you know if you’re giving too much in your relationships? Have you felt like your needs don’t count or matter to others? Do you have a habit of over-giving? Have you felt like you gave everything and still the relationship didn’t work out? Over-giving can be a detriment to a healthy relationship. You [...]

Are your limiting beliefs about love and relationship interfering in your search for lasting love? Limiting beliefs like: “Dating is hard.” “Love doesn’t last.” “True love is just a fantasy." Limiting beliefs get in the way of staying positive and motivated about love and dating and deflate your resiliency in love. They create self-sabotage and [...]

Is your heart open or closed to love? What if the perfect man walked into your life tomorrow? Would you be able to let him in or are you emotionally unavailable? Do believe you’ll have to give up your independence for a relationship? Or do you fear your heart will be broken again? Do you [...]

“Hi Orna and Matthew, It appears I’m still attracting emotionally unavailable men. My current situation involves a guy who started off pursuing me, and I thought it would be a different — sadly it’s not! Now that we’ve been dating a few months I can see he’s just like all the rest. Our physical connection [...]

Are guilt and shame blocking you from the lasting love you want? The energetic drain of carrying these low-vibration emotions is keeping you stuck in the past. To release yourself from these chains that close off your heart you’ll want to learn how to forgive yourself and open the flow of love to your heart. [...]

Wonder why lasting love is elusive for you? Confused about what’s blocking love in your life? It may feel like you’re cursed, but the truth is your love blocks are inside of you and you can rewire your brain for love. Rewiring your brain, or neuroplasticity is the ability to rewire neurological connections and form [...]

“Hi Orna and Matthew, I'm so sick of sabotaging my relationships! Recently, I completely blew it with a guy who was a great match for me, but my fears got in the way of me being open and vulnerable with him. I get scared and clam up. I'm afraid my relationship self-sabotage strategies are still [...]

"Hi Orna and Matthew, Why do I attract married men?! I seem to be stuck in this pattern and I need a way to repel them so they stop wasting my time. I must confess when I was younger, I was the other woman in a few relationships, and I feel terrible about it. Since [...]

“Dear O&M, I’m a bit on the shy side, so I’ve put off emailing you my question… I think I’ve also struggled with how to word it. Here’s my best shot: how is my unresolved emotional baggage holding me back from finding true love? I’m not even sure true love exists so maybe I’m not [...]

Do you think you’re too old for love? Maybe you think dating is for younger people; it can seem hard to meet new people when you’re over 40. It doesn’t matter if you’re 35 or 75, the belief that you’re too old for love can dash your hopes and cause you to keep your love [...]