Blocks to Love

When you struggle with finding a partner and experience long droughts in your dating life, you may find yourself asking, “Am I destined to be alone?" You wind up feeling as if some unseen force is keeping you from the long-lasting love you desire. Ultimately, the belief that you're meant to be alone leaves you [...]

Are guilt and shame blocking you from the lasting love you want? The energetic drain of carrying these low-vibration emotions is keeping you stuck in the past. To release yourself from these chains that close off your heart you’ll want to learn how to forgive yourself and open the flow of love to your heart. [...]

Let’s face it dating in midlife, or your third act, makes it more difficult to find someone who isn’t carrying a cartload of emotional baggage. But here’s the problem, while you’re focused on avoiding other people’s emotional baggage you’re avoiding dealing with your own. You may not be aware of it, but it’s possible you’re [...]

Wonder why lasting love is elusive for you? Confused about what’s blocking love in your life? It may feel like you’re cursed, but the truth is your love blocks are inside of you and you can rewire your brain for love. Rewiring your brain, or neuroplasticity is the ability to rewire neurological connections and form [...]

One of the best parts of the early stage of dating is discovering each other and creating emotional connection and intimacy. Opening your heart to someone new has so much hope and possibility for what you can create together. But what if you start to feel emotionally distant or emotionally detached from the guy you’re [...]

Do you think you’re too old for love? Maybe you think dating is for younger people; it can seem hard to meet new people when you’re over 40. It doesn’t matter if you’re 35 or 75, the belief that you’re too old for love can dash your hopes and cause you to keep your love [...]

Do you pride yourself on your high standards and achievements, always pushing yourself to be your best? Do your friends tease you about being too picky, or wonder why a great catch like you can’t find love? If your romantic relationships never live up to your expectations, you’re probably caught in the trap of perfectionism. [...]

Ever found yourself in a relationship that felt full of promise but never actually delivered? Then you know the heartbreak of falling for potential. Emotionally unavailable signs often hide in plain sight—they show up dressed as intensity, mystery, or potential. No matter how compelling the chemistry, a person who isn’t emotionally available can never offer [...]

You’ve recently met someone great, they’re really into you and the relationship is moving forward. But something inside of you doesn’t feel right, you don’t trust the relationship and become judgmental and critical. Or something unexpected happens and you get jealous or start doubting their intentions. Before you know it you’ve driven another potential partner [...]

Are you afraid of losing yourself in a relationship? Feel dread that you’ll abandon your needs and lose your independence because of a desire to be liked or loved? Here’s the good news: When you can identify your negative pattern and change your relationship strategies, you no longer have to be afraid of losing yourself. [...]