Red Flag

Were you ghosted recently? Maybe you thought there was a connection between you and suddenly he just disappeared without a trace? If so, you’re probably confused about what to do next, right? Once you’ve been ghosted, how long do you wait for him to come back around? Should you text him or call? Or should [...]

“Hi Orna and Matthew, I’m so sick of the mind games men play! Once again I feel duped and I’m heartbroken. When I first met the guy who just dumped me he asked what I wanted in a life partner. After sharing all my desires and hopes he told me that I was exactly what [...]

Not being able to keep your hands off each other can certainly leave you feeling breathless. Just the thought of seeing him again has those butterflies fluttering inside of you. But when you’re looking for a relationship that lasts, how can you know if the passion is good or not so good for the long-term [...]

A new relationship is exciting and intoxicating. It’s easy to put on rose-colored glasses and see your new partner as perfect when all the feel-good chemicals are flowing. Don’t let your desire for this relationship to work out obscure your common sense. Ignoring red flags in a new relationship will ultimately lead you to frustration [...]

Dating over 40 can feel very different than it did when you were younger and carefree. While it was easy to connect when most everyone you met was unmarried and looking, now you may find yourself looking for red flags to protect yourself from heartbreak. You may meet more divorcés, or find yourself worrying and [...]

How do you know if the man you’re dating has too much emotional baggage for a relationship? If you have a strong attraction to him, you can fall into the trap of excusing his bad behavior and ignoring red flags. You want it to work, so you overlook issues that you wouldn’t tolerate in a friend. [...]